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Too old for slumber parties

I just returned home from a slumber party consisting of 30 year old strait women. The reason for the gathering was a good friends divorce. Our friend was cheated on for the third time by her husband, THIRD TIME. I am very close to her husband and at times I felt awkward and pressured in to taking sides. I guess I should take her side in the situation I mean he cheated! He broke the vows! My opinion stands neutral for the most part. I feel no loyalty to either side. I feel that this situation should surprise no one and his cheating is no surprise. THIRD TIME! Maybe she should have left him the first time? Maybe she did the right thing because marriage is for better or for worse and the first act of infidelity was a moment or drunkenness. 

The second act as a full on affair to which he had a second cell phone just for the other woman. Why would you not leave him after this? I do not know. I understand working it out when it was just a sexual mistake where the little head was thinking  not the big head. Because lets be real here men think with the little head. Men are cheaters. Men don't really give a fuck. Woman are so gullible  to think men can control themselves. 


I am surrounded everyday by gay men and most of them understand that they are distracted quite often by the little head. Gay men and strait men are very much the same. They are attracted to different things but the little head is equally in charge. The difference is that most gay men (at least the ones I know) understand and except that they need sex. That they need excitement. That they need that piece of ass sitting at the end of the bar. Gay men very often are in open relationships because they understand that sex can be just sex. 


Woman associate sex with emotion and men.... they just want to fuck! Strait men cheat because they want to fuck! They are tired of the thing that they maybe only get once a month. If they don't cheat its because they are scared of getting caught. They always get caught. Woman need to realize if his does it once he will do it again. I think people need to be more realistic when it comes to sex, cheating and monogamy. As a lesbian cheating is not about sex it is attached to emotion because we are women who are with women. As woman our desire is not to fuck but to feel connected. Men - Fuck!

Perfect story to start me off!

Charlie Sheen -- Marriage in Limbo

We are drowning right now on the subject of CHEATING MEN. I am not surprised by this nor should you be. My take is that most men cheat. I know a man who WAS married, I will call him "Zack". Zack and I knew each other on an acquaintance level. I would see Zack out at my favorite bar about once a week. We would chat, take a few shots and share a basket of fries. Zack was a hard working blue collar guy. He liked to let off steam after work by throwing back a few rounds at the bar before heading home.

During one of our weekly meets at the bartender yelled out "Zack, you got a call." This is before cell phone use was the norm. Zack walked around the bar took the call. Moments later with a beads of sweat on his brow and the color of green he sat down next to me. I asked him if he was okay and he said he had just been caught by his wife. I asked what he got caught doing and he said CHEATING! He went on to explain that weeks earlier his wife had noticed money missing from his bank account and he told her he was paying a friend back. Apparently this bar was not the only place he went to blow off steam, he was seeing a hooker. He explained how he was not satisfied sexually anymore by his wife. He had been seeing this hooker because she could satisfy his needs. He explained he was still very much in love with his wife. Following his brief and anxious explanation he finished his beer and left the bar leaving me very curious about how his wife found out.

 I saw Zack only a handful of times after that he and his wife were "working it out" and his "privileges" were taken away. One of the times I saw him he said his wife was jealous of every woman he encountered and that he was no longer able to chat with me. I understood and because we were not close I really was not hurt. Not to long after the two moved out of town and he was seldom heard from. I am still left wondering how his wife found out and if they are together this day? This was not the first but just one of many men I have know who cheat.

A Little Preface!

I consider myself a rational, money savvy, ex-sorority girl lesbian who dislikes lesbians and loves men. Are you confused? You should be. I have big breasts that help to empower me to tell it like it is. I am an ex-sorority girl, fag-hag, football-loving, ass-enthusiastic, BARTENDER. I spent most of high school and all of college in a drunk or high or both state of mind. I cheated my way through high school to squeak my way into college. I tell you all of this so you will dismiss my horrific use of grammar and punctuation throughout this blog.

I spend most of my time now surrounded by gay men before this I was surrounded by strait women and very strait men. I have an interesting bond with men, hence my love for them. I have been let in by men in a way strait women could only dream of. I write to share secrets, answer questions, confirm somewhat obvious notions and make you laugh! I will give my take on real life situations, top gossip and local drama.

My name is Gibbler or Gibb or Gibby. Nice to meet ya!